English edit

Etymology edit

BDSM +‎ -er

Noun edit

BDSMer (plural BDSMers)

  1. (informal, BDSM) One who participates in BDSM.
    • 2007, Peter Ludlow, Mark Wallace, The Second Life Herald:
      Rather than occasional BDSM indulgences in the bedroom, lifestyle BDSMers practice their craft 24/7.
    • 2007, Marlene Wasserman, Pillowbook: creating a sensual lifestyle:
      After many more visits and discussions with BDSMers, I began to understand the power play and sexual high that BDSM can bring.