spare the rod and spoil the child

English

Medieval schoolboy being birched

Etymology

Commonly claimed to have come from:

Due to the associated "spoil" concept which is not in the bible, it more likely came from:

  • A 17th century poem by Samuel Butler called “Hudibras”. In the poem, a love affair is likened to a child, and spanking is commended as a way to make the love grow stronger. The actual verse reads [1]:
    "What medicine else can cure the fits
    Of lovers when they lose their wits?
    Love is a boy by poets styled
    Then spare the rod and spoil the child."

Proverb

spare the rod and spoil the child

  1. If one does not discipline a child, he or she will never learn obedience and good manners.

Translations

Last modified on 20 February 2014, at 11:58