With a Cassmance (and maybe others, too? I don't know if it's romance-specific) you get lots of double entendres from them, all of which end in the female noble telling the male one that he is awful.
My partner did the Cassmance, and her 'the Herald' bit right after sex...for my Adaar, it was huge that she was with someone who saw her as herself, not some title or religious figure.