Santos-Dumont was a Francophile and his Encantada library books include Victor Hugo’s complete works. He went to Paris first for medical treatment in 1891 and returned in 1892, 1896 and 1897 where, one biographer put it tactfully, he spent “16 years of illibidinous character”.
The feel of women’s fashion is either serious or wispy, never hard sex. In that sense, it definitely IS a limit on women’s behavior. While men’s fashion does everything, including the porny sex. // Maybe it’s from such a desexualized female, an illibidinous woman, that kitty stryker wants to escape.
A poly relationship does not even have to involve sex at all… there’s a lass I’m currently getting to know (yes, Mrs. D does know) who is at the moment completely illibidinous (long story, none of your business). I am going into this knowing that we might never have sex and that doesn’t bother me.