They are up in your business because you invited them in by spilling the tea on what you and your man earn.
2013, Stanley Bennett Clay, "A Fun Quick Read", DBQ Magazine, Volume 3, Issue 1, January/February 2013, page 9:
[…] she makes good on her promise to out her celebrity husband in the media by going on the top nationally syndicated radio talk show of Neicy Ross, an even more tacky version of Wendy Williams, and spills the tea on her man in delicious detail, […]
2013, "The Ones To Watch", Brink Magazine, Issue 26, February/March 2013, page 17:
Four different entrepreneurs and talents spill the tea on success, failure and lessons learned.
2013, "Flo Man", Strathmore News, Volume 27, Issue 2, December 2013 - February 2014, page 7:
Ok, spill the tea Marcus: who was your first Valentine?
2014, Gaelan Love, quoted in Michael Pihach, "Social Media Animal", In Magazine, August 2014, page 13:
My living room is called the Interior Illusions Lounge (which is the name of the room where contestants on the show “spill the tea” after showing their runway looks to RuPaul).
