backhanded compliment

English

Alternative forms

• back-handed compliment

Etymology

Compound of backhanded +‎ compliment. Similar figurative uses of backhanded are attested from at least the early 19th century.

Pronunciation

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Noun

backhanded compliment (plural backhanded compliments)

1. (idiomatic) An insult disguised as a compliment; a compliment which can be interpreted as an insult.
   • 1914, Edgar Rice Burroughs, chapter 17, in Tarzan of the Apes:

     " […] regardless of what he may say to you, he respects your great learning, and, therefore, has immense confidence in your judgment. The poor dear cannot differentiate between erudition and wisdom." Mr. Philander, with a mildly puzzled expression on his face, turned to pursue Professor Porter, and in his mind he was revolving the question of whether he should feel complimented or aggrieved at Miss Porter's rather back-handed compliment.

   • 1998 June 29, Jere Longman, “World Cup '98: Dutch Fans Are Orange (Hair, Dresses, Clogs and Faces) With Envy”, in New York Times‎^[1], retrieved 7 October 2013:

     Perhaps, finally, the Netherlands will shed itself of the backhanded compliment of being the best team never to win a world championship.

   • 2009 February 4, Robert Chew, “A Madoff Whistle-Blower Tells His Story”, in Time‎^[2], retrieved 7 October 2013:

     In a backhanded compliment, Markopolos said the SEC is a "bad regulator, but the best of a very sorry lot."

Synonyms

• asteism
• dubious compliment
• left-handed compliment
• poisonous compliment; poisoned compliment

Translations

insult disguised as a compliment

• German: vergiftetes Kompliment n; zweifelhaftes Kompliment n, zweideutiges Kompliment n
• Japanese: 褒め殺し (homegoroshi)
• Polish: dwuznaczny komplement
• Spanish: crítica velada

See also

• damn with faint praise

Further reading

• Insult on Wikipedia.Wikipedia