der Esel geht immer voran

German

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Etymology

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Literally, "the donkey always comes first". Probably from the idea that the donkey walks in front of the carriage but is of lesser value than the people on it.

Proverb

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der Esel geht immer voran

  1. Said when someone mentions themselves first in an enumeration of people (like “I and you”, “I and my friend”), which is considered unmannered in the German-speaking (and some other) countries
    Synonym: der Esel nennt sich immer zuerst