Japanese edit

Etymology 1 edit

For pronunciation and definitions of できあい – see the following entry.
出来合い
[noun] being ready-made
[noun] (archaic) voluntary and de-facto marriage (as opposed to marriage arranged and recognized by parents)
(This term, できあい, is the hiragana spelling of the above term.)

Etymology 2 edit

For pronunciation and definitions of できあい – see the following entry.
溺愛
[noun] pampering; spoiling
[verb] to love someone excessively (especially in a foolish way); to dote on; to pamper (one's child); to spoil
(This term, できあい, is the hiragana spelling of the above term.)