Borrowed from Scots bauther, bather (“to bother”). Origin unknown. Perhaps related to Scots pother (“to make a stir or commotion, bustle”), also of unknown origin. Compare English pother (“to poke, prod”), variant of potter (“to poke”). More at potter. Perhaps related to Irish bodhaire (“noise”), Irish bodhraim (“to deafen, annoy”). 
- enPR: bŏʹ-thər, IPA(key): /ˈbɒðəɹ/
- (General Australian) IPA(key): [ˈbɔðə(ɹ)]
- (UK) IPA(key): [ˈbɒðə(ɹ)]
- (US) IPA(key): [ˈbɑðɚ]
- (transitive) To annoy, to disturb, to irritate.
- Would it bother you if I smoked?
- (intransitive) To feel care or anxiety; to make or take trouble; to be troublesome.
- Why do I even bother to try?
- (intransitive) To do something which is of negligible inconvenience.
- You didn't even bother to close the door.
- This is a catenative verb that takes the to infinitive or the gerund (-ing). See Appendix:English catenative verbs
- (annoy): annoy, disturb, irritate, put out, vex; see also Thesaurus:annoy
- (make or take trouble): care, mind; see also Thesaurus:care
- ^ Concise Oxford English Dictionary 2011
- Fuss, ado.
- There was a bit of bother at the hairdresser's when they couldn't find my appointment in the book.
- Trouble, inconvenience.
- Yes, I can do that for you - it's no bother.
- A mild expression of annoyance.
- 1926, A A Milne, Winnie the Pooh, Methuen & Co., Ltd., Chapter 2 ...in which Pooh goes visiting and gets into a tight place:
- "Oh, help!" said Pooh. "I'd better go back."
- "Oh, bother!" said Pooh. "I shall have to go on."
- "I can't do either!" said Pooh. "Oh, help and bother!"